I wanted to start a blog to track Natalie's hearing progress with cochlear implants. It is a gradual process for us, but so much has already happened in 10 days!
Lets recap from her surgery day first, so I have it documented on this blog. I took this from our family blog:
We have been waiting for this big day for a long time, the time Natalie would get her cochlear implants. Since birth and finding out she was deaf, the term cochlear implant worked its way into our life and now has become a reality.
Lets back up to the weekend before... I got sick, really sick. I had been in bed all day Sunday. I finally checked my temp that afternoon and it was 103. Since we were leaving at 7:30 the next morning to head to Chapel Hill, Tim and I thought we should go get me tested for strep throat at the ER, so we were there from 11:00-1:00 Sunday night. They gave me an injection that night and by the next morning I was starting to feel better.
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Since I was still contagious, this is how I got to look for the next day and a half.
Monday morning we headed up to Chapel Hill for all the pre-op appointments. Our drive up went great. The roads were good, weather good. I remember thinking how lucky we were since you never know what to expect in the winter. We had a 10:00 am speech and language evaluation first at the CCCDP (this is the audiologist office in Durham). We finalized things with the implant processor and then headed to lunch. We were planning on staying at the Ronald McDonald House that night, but since I had strep, we were able to get a hospital rate at this hotel which worked out better.
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We had a 3:00 pre-op appointment with our ENT Dr. Buchman and then headed over to the pre-care area where they talked about all the pre-surgery stuff. Originally we thought she would be the first surgery, but since we were doing bilateral and she was staying overnight, we got bumped last, so her surgery start time was at 11:30. By the time we finished, it was dinnertime, so we headed over to P.F. Changs which was nice. We are usually grabbing fast food when we are up in Chapel Hill because we are usually doing it in a one day trip and just in a hurry to get home.
We had great fortune cookies.. they said:
Natalie's: "Happier days are definitely ahead for you."
Tim's:, "Big Journey's begin with a single step."
Melissa:, "The only sure thing about luck is that it will change." (I needed some good luck.. too much bad luck lately)
By the time we got back to our hotel, we had to give Natalie a shower with an anti-bacterial soap. We made sure she ate well before going to sleep. They told us she could have breastmilk up to 3:00 am and then clear fluids (juice, pedialyte) until 8:15 am. She was super exhausted for bedtime. We decided to wake her up at 2:30 to feed her some breastmilk. Of course since I had been sick and didn’t want direct contact with her, I had been pumping most of the weekend.
I was so nervous Monday night after she went to bed. I just couldn’t wait for the surgery to be all over with.
Natalie awoke for the day at 7:00. We got ready and headed to the hospital around 9:00. She did fine being fasted and we were glad we had woken her up at 2:30 for that last bottle. Check-in was fast and we proceeded to the Children’s Surgical Waiting Room for about 45 minutes.
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She looks like she is praying in this picture. |
We finally got called back to the pre-anesthesia area where we went over her medical history. Natalie fell asleep in Tim’s arms and she was just so precious. By this time it was 10:15 and I know she was probably starving.
For anesthesia, they told us if babies tolerate it, they usually just put a mask over their face until they are relaxed and then they can get an IV in. Since Natalie was still sleeping, they thought it would be best to hand her over to them since she was already relaxed... and so we did. They took her back at 11:00. She did wake up when they took her, but she was ok and not scared. It was so hard for me to see them walk off with her. She had no idea what was about to take place, or the significance of this day. It breaks my heart she had to go through this.
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And one last picture of her pre-implanted ears. I just love her so much. Too bad those darn ears just don’t work right but SO thankful we have options for hearing.
I was very sad and emotional the whole morning. Tim and I just waited in the Children’s waiting room. They called from the OR around 12:00 saying they were underway and everything was going fine. It took a while to get her prepped since they were doing both ears. Tim and I went to get lunch at the cafeteria and honestly just picked at our food. We were hungry but couldn’t eat. It was hard knowing your little baby girl is in surgery at that very moment.
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I love how this picture shows Christ in the surgery room. |
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Our Princess Leia |
We went back to the waiting room and they called around 1:00 saying they had finished the first side and were starting the second side. That was really nice to hear. We were planning on the bilateral, but were not sure if she would have any complications that would make him stop at just 1 side. She was done by 2:30 and I was able to see her back in the recovery area about 20 minutes later.
I just got to rock her, we gave her a bottle and some pedialyte and she was pretty out of it for the most part. After being back there for 45 minutes, they wheeled us into the temporary stay unit for the night. We knew she was staying overnight for 23 hour observation, but we thought she would have her own hospital room. This was just a curtained off “space” that all 3 of us got to sleep for the night. |
Natalie did great over night. She woke up a few times for her Tylenol (I can’t believe that is all that is needed for pain). Tim and I didn’t sleep well at all. We 2 total chairs to sleep on: 1 that unfolded down and the other a recliner. Both extremely uncomfortable. We were so lucky to have a girl next curtain over throwing up all night too. We couldn’t wait to get out of there the next morning, so once the resident rounded on us, we took off. Natalie was doing so great, we didn’t need to wait for Dr. Buchman to round on her.
We took a different way home from Chapel Hill .. not to my liking. Tim put it into his GPS and to make a long story short; don’t always trust your GPS but use common sense too. It was uneventful, and the drive was fine, it was just not on the interstate. But Natalie slept almost the entire way home.
We came home to these signs the kids made for Natalie. When we drove up I got tears in my eyes. They love her so much!
This is her the morning after... she was in good spirits. The kids were excited to eat their m&m’s she brought home to them. So thankful to Grandpa Larson for watching our busy kids while we were away. He did a great job!
By Thursday, Natalie had already taken her bandage off. The piece on the forehead started to slip over her eyes. I tried reinforcing it with tape, but went up to her crib that afternoon and the bandage was around her neck. I guess she was done with it. The ENT office said they like them on til Friday, but it was ok to leave it off.
The next day she seemed more puffy. Her eyes were swollen and her ears stick out funny (but will go back to normal).
By Friday afternoon/Saturday morning, she started looking more like herself and has been doing extremely well. I am so impressed with how well she is recovering and doing. She has such a big heart, did amazing in the hospital and has been such a sweet girl.
I am so thankful for all the love, support and prayers that have been sent our way. We are so thankful for wonderful family and friends. Now, we just can’t wait until Janary 24th for her activation day, the day she will hear for the first time.